Sacred. Love. Legacy

Future Wife & Homemaker

Open to a soul-aligned partnership — grounded, generous, legacy-minded. My heart is ready for a sacred union rooted in truth and purpose

About me

Zurich gave me life.
Yugoslavia gave me soul.

Raised between alpine order
and a vanished border.

I’ve lived many lives —
some in words, others in whispers,
and a few memories
still dancing on the edge of time.

I’ve lost parts of myself along the way,
and met deeper truths
in the quiet that remained.

Not all of it was mine —
some of it moved through me
to be healed.

What once felt heavy
became light
and seen.

I came first —
the quiet flame
before the twin sparks.

We grew
like wildflowers
in uneven light.

I learned to lead
without noise,
and love,
even from afar.

I’ve walked paths untold —
corporate spaces
and candlelit rooms,
silk gowns
and bare feet in the sea.

I’ve known
the quiet dignity of less,
and the elegance of more.

Once, I told stories through screens.
Now,
I let my essence speak.

The chapters I built
in boardrooms —
they live here.

And though the photos have faded,
the following stays —
Instagram,
a trace of a life
once lived in petals and pixels.

Now is a quiet space
where all things align.

Here,
love is not sought —
but received
in its own time.

Nurtured by softness,
guided by depth,
I’m ready
to surrender to what’s next.

A life in truth,
values shared,
and a love
that feels safe
and is real.

What dating me feels like

A slow dance in candlelight.
A warm embrace after a long day.
The thrill of discovering beauty together.
The joy of knowing you have someone who sees you, trusts you, and believes in you 💖

What I feel drawn to ♡

  • There’s something deeply comforting about a man who has lived, loved, and grown through life’s unfolding chapters.

    I’m not seeking to be your first everything — I’m open to being your last, your best, and your most sacred love.

    If you come with children, I see the role of stepmother not as a duty but as a deep honor — to love and nurture what you’ve created, expanding the love within our family 💕

  • I’m drawn to men who build — those who create value, shape vision, and move through life with quiet, intentional strength. You’re not just working; you’re leading with purpose, carving out something of your own. Your clarity and direction make it safe for me to trust and surrender.

    While I’m focused on being a wife and homemaker, my entrepreneurial spirit remains alive. I see myself contributing to ventures in the future, bringing creativity and energy when the time feels right 💸

  • I thrive when I feel safe, seen, and provided for.

    I long to surrender into my feminine, trusting your strength, your steady direction, and unwavering devotion. When you create the space and structure, I soften into it, bringing warmth, radiance, and devotion in return 🌸

  • Swiss German is the language of my home, my laughter, and my heart.
    Sharing this language with you would bring a depth of connection and joy that I cherish deeply.

    If you come with children, I welcome them with open arms, embracing the role of stepmother — not as a substitute, but as a woman who brings grace and wisdom.

    The French term la belle-mère reflects a cultural nuance where the stepmother teaches a child what the biological mother cannot. It’s not about replacement; rather, it’s about expanding what love can look like 💗

Vitals & Virtues

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The Essentials You Might Be Wondering About

Age
36

Height
171cm

Location
Zollikon

Children
None

Family plans
I don’t seek biological children

Pets
None

Drinking
Rarely

Smoking/Drugs
No

Zodiac
Aquarius Sun —
an adventurer at heart, ready to innovate, break boundaries, and inspire ✨

Human Design
Manifesting Generator 4/6 —
My environment: Markets. Where energy flows and connections spark ✨

MBIT
ESFP or INFJ —
two wo opposite results... I guess I’m full of layers, and only a few have been uncovered. Both resonate, but there’s so much more to discover ✨

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Job title & Work
Future Wife & Homemaker 💞 at My Own Universe aka Love HQ - Only one can be king 👑

College / University
The Royal Academy of Love, Legacy & Devotion 

Religious beliefs
Spiritual

Home town
Zurich City K12 -
from Ghetto to Goddess.

Language spoken
German, English, Serbian

Dating Intentions
I love feeling cherished and safe with a man I can truly count on. My heart melts at the thought of becoming a wife 💍

Relationship type
Monogamy let’s me completely surrender and open my heart to one man — one who cherishes me, protects my softness, and knows he is worthy of all of me 🌹

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Green flags I look out for

A man who makes me feel safe, adored, and prioritised - whose steady presence lets me relax. You’ve done inner work (yes, therapy counts), and you walk the talk.

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We’ll get along if..

… you enjoy slowing down to savor life’s beauty - sunsets over the lake, deep late-night talks, and planning a life full of adventure, laughter, and trust. 

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Where memory meets meaning — where storytelling and poetry intertwine.

RSVP

If something here moved you —
If you see your vision reflected in mine —
Or if you know someone who might..
I’d love to hear from you.